Piece of advice, as a human being first and a Lesbian second from jenna_'s blog

What people do in their own bedrooms is their own business and should not concern anyone else in any way. Try to be true to yourselves and to your friends, your family, and to other people you come across in your lives.

Each person’s sexual orientation is a private matter. Who we are and what we are able to do, on the other hand, is something that can be shared with people we interact with in our everyday lives. What is important is not to cause anyone to hurt; we are all human beings.