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Why Self Love Matters

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That’s what all the hub bub is about self love and building self-esteem. When you love yourself first, you have a good deal of confidence and believe in yourself.

This helps you handle all the rejection life throws at you, taking it in stride. You see it as a small bump in the road and are not deterred from your goal – whether you want a new job or a new man, You say to yourself, “Oh well, his loss!”

Ø  But you do NOT assume all the blame.

When you are good with yourself, you don’t beat yourself up thinking it’s all your fault. You can look at yourself and assess what part you might have played in whatever happened which is healthy. And you might choose to improve something or change a habit.


Loving yourself first matters so much because it’s a healthy way of handling life’s disappointments, big or small. And this also helps you recover faster when things go wrong in any area of life.

Blaming Yourself Is A Bad Habit

Whether you believe it or not, you are very special. A unique human being with a personality as individual as a snowflake. You share your presence with those around you, have your own way of looking at things, and make a contribution to the planet.


You may be a full time mom, a grandmother, an aunt or sister, a career woman, a volunteer, a good friend, an assistant or all of these! Perhaps you are good at math or amazingly creative.


And, you have special gifts to make a man happy too.


For example, you may whisper a man’s name in a certain way that lifts his spirits. Or perhaps support his vision, cook delectable meals, massage his shoulders, or laugh at his jokes.

What’s distinctive about you cud be your wit, how you help him feel masculine, share your love or make him smile. Whether or not you are in a relationship – you have so much to offer the right man!


That is what I want you to express gratitude for.

Appreciate Yourself Just as You Are.

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You’ve probably heard it before that you can’t give what you don’t have. In terms of relationships, this means that you can’t give love to someone else if you don’t love yourself. But so many people go from relationship to relationship looking for someone to love them, as if to validate their existence. For some, it could be because they grew up in a home where they had to perform or act a certain way to earn love or acceptance. For others, it could be because previous relationships have made them feel like they are not good enough, pretty enough or smart enough. So they’re secretly (or not so secretly) longing for someone to show them that they are worthy of love.



It is important to remember this when considering a relationship. When you know your worth, you’ll be careful who you consider going into a relationship with. When you realize that the Creator of the universe sees you as so special that you’re worth dying for, you wouldn’t settle for someone that treats you less than you’re worth.




Loving yourself doesn’t mean you have to be proud, or haughty. It just means that you refuse to settle for anything less than you deserve. It means that you respect yourself enough to know when to walk away from a relationship that isn’t right, or healthy. It means that you recognize that if someone truly respects you, they would not expect you to, or coerce you to compromise on your values. But it also means that you know when to say yes to something good. It also means that you recognize when you have a good thing going and you allow yourself to say yes to it.

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